This came up as I have been observing on this Website that people just become Member, but do not open up enough to share their basic details even.
Unless you do something you would never have a feel of that act.
Participation brings joy!
The problem lies in acceptance. If you accept someone to tell you what are good/bad in you, then you do not feel bad, but though somebody rightly identifies bad in you but you do not have acceptance then you feel bad....